{"id":598,"date":"2017-08-31T19:07:57","date_gmt":"2017-08-31T19:07:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/insidejobscoach.com\/?p=598"},"modified":"2019-03-10T20:23:46","modified_gmt":"2019-03-10T20:23:46","slug":"are-you-trustworthy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/insidejobscoach.com\/are-you-trustworthy\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Trustworthy?"},"content":{"rendered":"

This week I know several people who are dealing with trust situations.\u00a0 One of them is having problems with a friend who is talking negatively about her to others, another is feeling betrayed by a client who is acting in an untrustworthy manner, and a third is struggling because he has a relative who says he will do things, and then always lets him down.<\/p>\n

Since trust seems to be the topic of the week, it seems like a good time to talk about it.<\/p>\n

Trust – The Most Important Ingredient<\/h2>\n

As we all know, trust is one of the most important ingredients in every relationship.\u00a0 Being able to trust someone implies they are accountable, predictable, honest, reliable, and honor their word.\u00a0 For any kind of relationship to happen all people involved must be able to trust one another.<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s with your family, friends, clients, customers, employees, or vendors, if there is no mutual trust, there is no solid foundation for your relationship.<\/p>\n

This is something we all know, but sometimes forget.<\/p>\n

Occasionally it\u2019s helpful to re-evaluate things we take for granted in order to see where we currently stand.\u00a0 We may have terrific intentions, but not be living up to our expectations.<\/p>\n

The question is, are YOU trustworthy?<\/p>\n

Are You Accountable?<\/h2>\n

Here is what to look at.<\/p>\n

Are you accountable?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Accountability\u00a0<\/strong>means that you accept responsibility for your actions, and will always be accountable for your behavior. You can be relied on to follow through and make things right.\u00a0 Your word is your bond, and if something goes wrong, you\u00a0do not<\/strong>\u00a0pass the buck or blame others. You own it!<\/p>\n

Are you predictable?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Predictability<\/strong>\u00a0implies a consistency in your behavior.\u00a0 Some people think that being predictable is boring, but in matters of relationships, people have to be able to predict that your behavior will be consistent.\u00a0 When customers come to your shop they want to know that they will\u00a0always<\/strong>\u00a0be greeted with a friendly smile and courteous service.\u00a0 When you go to a restaurant, you have to know that the food will consistently be good, every time. When you have surgery, you need to know your doctor will always do an excellent job. There is no room for variation or \u201ca bad day\u201d.<\/p>\n

If your friends, family and clients can consistently predict that their experience with you will be positive, they will stay loyal.\u00a0 However, if the quality of your interactions, service or product is sporadic and inconsistent, people won\u2019t know what to expect. They will feel uncomfortable and leave.<\/p>\n

Are you reliable?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Reliability<\/strong>\u00a0means that you are dependable. You do what you say you will do, every time, with no excuses.\u00a0 People can count on you, and know if you say it, it will happen.\u00a0 For trust to exist, everyone you deal with must know they can count on you to follow through.<\/p>\n

Are you honest?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Honesty means you tell the truth, and if you say something people can count on it being true. \u00a0If you lie, people will know, you will have no credibility. \u00a0If they can believe what you say, they will never trust you.<\/p>\n

Building Trust<\/h2>\n

We all know that trust is slow and difficult to build and very easy to break.\u00a0 Once it\u2019s broken it takes a long time to rebuild, and sometimes can never be fully repaired.\u00a0 If you are having trouble with a relationship, I would bet that someone involved is not exhibiting one of these qualities, and somehow the mutual trust has been broken.<\/p>\n

You might want to ask yourself how predictable, accountable, reliable and honest are you.\u00a0\u00a0Can all the people in your life consistently count on you to honor what you say, know it is true, and expect follow through of appropriate action in a timely manner?<\/p>\n

You also might want to look at how trustworthy the people you deal with are.\u00a0 Can you count on them to fulfill their part of whatever your interaction with them is?<\/p>\n

The question to ask yourself is, \u201cam I trustworthy?\u00a0 Do I deserve, and continue to earn, the trust of others?\u201d\u00a0 Also, do I surround myself with like-minded people?\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s something to keep in mind and examine frequently.<\/p>\n

Please comment so others can benefit from your wisdom and experience.<\/b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Sandy is now offering a FREE Coaching Call, so you can see what Coaching is all about. Please email her at\u00a0Sandy@insidejobscoach.com<\/a>\u00a0and put FREE Call in the Subject Line. \u00a0 She will get right back to you to schedule your call.<\/b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

For FREE worksheets on ways to empower yourself, see the Resources Page on our\u00a0Inside Jobs Coach<\/a>\u00a0website. Also be sure to check out our Books and Programs page.<\/b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019d like to bring positive changes into your life, we have the perfect thing for you. \u00a0Check out\u00a0The Rapid Power Pack<\/strong><\/a>, and begin to create the life of your dreams.<\/b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

If you would like to feel more confident and believe in yourself, check out\u00a0The Confidence Pack<\/a>, which contains several powerful worksheets to guide you and an amazing hypnotherapy session to strengthen your belief in yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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