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Yesterday I broke a crystal vase that was important to me.\u00a0 It was given to me by someone I love, and I was really upset with my clumsiness.<\/p>\n

My husband, seeing my distress, was soothing and calm, and said, \u201cLet me see what I can do with this.\u201d\u00a0 While I continued to rant at myself, he quietly took the pieces away, worked his magic and made it like new again.<\/p>\n

When he brought it back to me his face was filled with sweetness, and it occurred to me that this repaired vase was a gift of love.<\/p>\n

I began thinking about all the ways he shows me he loves me. Words are nice, but his actions speak volumes, and I\u2019m so very blessed to have him in my life.<\/p>\n

I then thought of a woman I know who complains that her husband and children don\u2019t love her.\u00a0 She says they never say it, and she feels that nobody cares.\u00a0 However, when I look at her family I realize that there is a lot of love being given.\u00a0 She just doesn\u2019t recognize it so doesn\u2019t know how to receive it.<\/p>\n

When her husband goes to work at a job he doesn\u2019t like, so that she can do what she wants, which is stay home and raise the children, that\u2019s a gift of love.\u00a0 When her adolescent son offers to pick up something at the store so she won\u2019t have to pack up the smaller kids to go out, that is his way of telling her he loves her.<\/p>\n

Love is all around us, but we\u2019re often like my friend who expects it to come in a specific form.\u00a0 When it doesn\u2019t, we miss it and feel unloved.<\/p>\n

So this month I\u2019m reflecting on being aware of ALL the ways people show me love, and being happy to receive it in whatever form it\u2019s given.<\/p>\n

How about you?<\/p>\n

Please comment so others can benefit from your wisdom and experience.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sandy is now offering a FREE Coaching Call, so you can see what Coaching is all about.\u00a0 Please email her at Sandy@insidejobscoach.com<\/a> and put FREE Call in the Subject Line.\u00a0 She will get right back to you to schedule your call.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

For FREE worksheets on ways to empower yourself, see the Resources Page on our Inside Jobs Coach<\/a> website.\u00a0 Also be sure to check out our Books and Programs page.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’d like to bring positive changes into your life, we have the perfect thing for you. \u00a0Check out The Rapid Power Pack<\/a>, and begin to create the life of your dreams.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you would like to feel more confident and believe in yourself, check out The Confidence Pack<\/a>, which contains several powerful worksheets to guide you and an amazing hypnotherapy session to strengthen your belief in yourself. <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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